Thread of Love 3.0

[Rylan]

no name accepts consequences for what he says. He deserves a beer

[Rylan]

Ok so I have my first real date since before my accident. Now, I am honestly nervous since this is pretty big in putting things into my past. So hive mind of LGP, any pointers on avoiding awkward silence and similar issues? It would help ease the tension a bit.

[Factorial]

Is no names declaration up for discussion? Would it not hurt Mrs. no name to discover this attitude? I'm not really judging just curious. And you definitely made the correct decision with the sister as that would eventually come to light.

[no name]

If you do decide to discuss it you risk getting Rylans thread deleted, something we are trying to avoid at this point.

[bhaw]

Ok so I have my first real date since before my accident. Now, I am honestly nervous since this is pretty big in putting things into my past. So hive mind of LGP, any pointers on avoiding awkward silence and similar issues? It would help ease the tension a bit.

If you feel a silence coming, just take off your shoe and show her the foot. Silence broken...

[MRandall25]

Ok so I have my first real date since before my accident. Now, I am honestly nervous since this is pretty big in putting things into my past. So hive mind of LGP, any pointers on avoiding awkward silence and similar issues? It would help ease the tension a bit.

This is relevant to my interests (the bolded)

[bhaw]

For serious... My experience was that if you connect there won't be much silence and if there is it won't be awkward. Dates where I had those moments were typically last dates because it wasn't working.

Unless you're boring. Then you're boned... Not in the good way.

[Willie Kool]

Ok so I have my first real date since before my accident. Now, I am honestly nervous since this is pretty big in putting things into my past. So hive mind of LGP, any pointers on avoiding awkward silence and similar issues? It would help ease the tension a bit.

Chill. Don't allow yourself to build this up to be the 'big date' you (understandably) feel it to be. No matter how it goes, it's a positive step. Look at it like the first game back after 6 months on IR. You may feel a little rusty, but go give it what you've got. Just get out there and have some fun, and if that doesn't work:

Spoiler:

Fruit Ninja!

[ulf]

Just find something to do that doesn't involve a lot of talking. Chicka chicka.

[Cagsjr724]

I'm a little lost. New girlfriend and I have got along great. I sent her a text Thursday night asking how her day was no response, text her Friday afternoon no response, called her Saturday night and left a message saying "hey is everything ok call or text me when you can." no response. I haven't herd a word from her. I'm guessing it's over, but I also think its lame she couldn't tell me its over and played the ignore game.

[columbia]

Spoiler:

[no name]

I'm a little lost. New girlfriend and I have got along great. I sent her a text Thursday night asking how her day was no response, text her Friday afternoon no response, called her Saturday night and left a message saying "hey is everything ok call or text me when you can." no response. I haven't herd a word from her. I'm guessing it's over, but I also think its lame she couldn't tell me its over and played the ignore game.

at this point you send a text telling her you don't think its working out and want to break up, that is sure to get a responce.

[CERV96]

Remind your lady friends what March 14 is. Time to start cookin that steak and licking those chops!

[no name]

Ok so I have my first real date since before my accident. Now, I am honestly nervous since this is pretty big in putting things into my past. So hive mind of LGP, any pointers on avoiding awkward silence and similar issues? It would help ease the tension a bit.

Chill. Don't allow yourself to build this up to be the 'big date' you (understandably) feel it to be. No matter how it goes, it's a positive step. Look at it like the first game back after 6 months on IR. You may feel a little rusty, but go give it what you've got. Just get out there and have some fun, and if that doesn't work:

Spoiler:

Fruit Ninja!

Sound advice, admit your nervous to her so she might take the first step if the conversation boggs down. Where did you plan on taking her?

[newarenanow]

I'm a little lost. New girlfriend and I have got along great. I sent her a text Thursday night asking how her day was no response, text her Friday afternoon no response, called her Saturday night and left a message saying "hey is everything ok call or text me when you can." no response. I haven't herd a word from her. I'm guessing it's over, but I also think its lame she couldn't tell me its over and played the ignore game.

Have you heard from her yet?

[obhave]

Ok so I have my first real date since before my accident. Now, I am honestly nervous since this is pretty big in putting things into my past. So hive mind of LGP, any pointers on avoiding awkward silence and similar issues? It would help ease the tension a bit.

How did the date go rylan?

[Rylan]

Terrible lol.

[FreeCandy44]

Terrible lol.

Thumbs up buddy

[Froggy]

you showed her the foot, didnt you?

[Rylan]

[Froggy]

SHE DEGLOVED YOUR HEART, DUDE! THAT IS UNACCEPTABLE!!!

[Rylan]

I need to sustain another injury to get new jokes

[obhave]

to get new hot PA

[Rylan]

to get new hot PA

that is rubbing salt in a wound so to speak. I like it.

[Froggy]

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