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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby the errey i breathe on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:10 pm

KennyTheKangaroo wrote:is there ever an ok time to look through your special someones cellular device with express permission

I have recently been banned from touching my wife's phone after changing her background photo to midgets engaging in adult acts
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby steelhammer on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:12 pm

Surprised that the Stasi tactics are so readily accepted amongst the LGP freedom fighters? Expecting my gf to let me read her texts is a sign of insecurity and just creepy. Vice versa.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby newarenanow on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:18 pm

KennyTheKangaroo wrote:unless you count texts along the lines of "my life will be a better place once kevin correia is out of the pirates organization" or "tino stinks" and so on, there is nothing to hide on this gentleman's phone.

that being said, it gets annoying to get peppered by questions (asked in an innocent voice, of course) such as "who are you texting hun!??!!" or "whats going on!??!" when all kenny the kangaroo is trying to do is voice displeasure to some bros about the pirates, or the pens, or pitt, particularly when there is no particular reason to suspsect foul play.

moreover, even if there WAS foul play, why would kenny the kangaroo be whispering sweet nothings to someone when KTKGF is sitting in the same room?

it just gets annoying to hear about how great the relationship is, and how great of a boyfriend you are, etc. etc. etc. but still not be trusted enough that the phone gets looked through on a fairly regular basis.


:lol: I ask my wife all the time who she is texting, mainly because I"m bored and I forgot I asked her 5 minutes earlier. She thinks I just ask so it makes it look like I'm acknowledging she is in the room as I am watching football.

It has nothing to do with trust. I really don't care, I think I just say it to make conversation.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby newarenanow on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:19 pm

the errey i breathe wrote:
KennyTheKangaroo wrote:is there ever an ok time to look through your special someones cellular device with express permission

I have recently been banned from touching my wife's phone after changing her background photo to midgets engaging in adult acts


:thumb:
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby MRandall25 on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:32 pm

the errey i breathe wrote:
KennyTheKangaroo wrote:is there ever an ok time to look through your special someones cellular device with express permission

I have recently been banned from touching my wife's phone after changing her background photo to midgets engaging in adult acts


Holy **** that's genius
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby shafnutz05 on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:35 pm

steelhammer wrote:Surprised that the Stasi tactics are so readily accepted amongst the LGP freedom fighters? Expecting my gf to let me read her texts is a sign of insecurity and just creepy. Vice versa.


Yeah, that's weird. We never look at each other's cell phones out of respect, aside from someone getting a text and letting them know who/what it was (and you can do that without going into the phone). It's not a keeping secrets thing, it's a personal space thing.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Sarcastic on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:37 pm

newarenanow wrote:
the errey i breathe wrote:
KennyTheKangaroo wrote:is there ever an ok time to look through your special someones cellular device with express permission

I have recently been banned from touching my wife's phone after changing her background photo to midgets engaging in adult acts


:thumb:


:thumb:

ps - I sometimes secretly set my dad's PC wallpaper to a nakid picture. He does not mind, except when he has people over and turns it on and whoops... surprise.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Sarcastic on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:40 pm

shafnutz05 wrote:
steelhammer wrote:Surprised that the Stasi tactics are so readily accepted amongst the LGP freedom fighters? Expecting my gf to let me read her texts is a sign of insecurity and just creepy. Vice versa.


Yeah, that's weird. We never look at each other's cell phones out of respect, aside from someone getting a text and letting them know who/what it was (and you can do that without going into the phone). It's not a keeping secrets thing, it's a personal space thing.


Why? We leave our phones out in the open. Not that we check them but we can pick them up and play with them anytime. If mine's charging, I'll use hers and vice-versa for instance.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Froggy on Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:50 pm

Because of my job, everything on my phone has to be super encrypted, and I have either a pin or one of those dot swipe deals in order to access anything. it takes forever to do anything on my phone.


Point being, if my girlfriend wanted to go through my phone, I'd certainly let her give it a try. She'd get sick of trying real quick
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby steelhammer on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:01 pm

Sarcastic wrote:
shafnutz05 wrote:
steelhammer wrote:Surprised that the Stasi tactics are so readily accepted amongst the LGP freedom fighters? Expecting my gf to let me read her texts is a sign of insecurity and just creepy. Vice versa.


Yeah, that's weird. We never look at each other's cell phones out of respect, aside from someone getting a text and letting them know who/what it was (and you can do that without going into the phone). It's not a keeping secrets thing, it's a personal space thing.


Why? We leave our phones out in the open. Not that we check them but we can pick them up and play with them anytime. If mine's charging, I'll use hers and vice-versa for instance.


I support general shenanigans and fair use. My point is more along the lines of your partner having to know EVERYTHING you are doing/thinking. Opens up a big can of worms for messages getting misinterpreted and possibly surprises being spoiled. Additionally, I don't delete any messages so I don't need anyone getting the wrong idea about sexts from past relationships.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby steelhammer on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:01 pm

I meant texts...
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Sarcastic on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:23 pm

I get that. Just that for me personally it was important to get in a relationship where I didn't have to worry abut any BS with the girl getting insecure or jealous and same from my end. I know what some people go through. Well, I won't deal with the stress. I have female friends. She has male friends. It's cool. I had one crazy g/f like that and it was something so horrible I'd never want to live through that again. She would spy on me when I'd talk to female friends, then give me guilt trips like clam up and be all cold. F THAT. I made sure to let my current g/f know that if there is a problem or question, we sit down and talk it out and also that I will never pull any BS on her and she has to appreciate that and just trust me. It's been a nice deal for both of us.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby shafnutz05 on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:26 pm

I just make sure to delete my Safari history before letting the missus play :pop:
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby newarenanow on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:32 pm

Sarcastic wrote:I get that. Just that for me personally it was important to get in a relationship where I didn't have to worry abut any BS with the girl getting insecure or jealous and same from my end. I know what some people go through. Well, I won't deal with the stress. I have female friends. She has male friends. It's cool. I had one crazy g/f like that and it was something so horrible I'd never want to live through that again. She would spy on me when I'd talk to female friends, then give me guilt trips like clam up and be all cold. F THAT. I made sure to let my current g/f know that if there is a problem or question, we sit down and talk it out and also that I will never pull any BS on her and she has to appreciate that and just trust me. It's been a nice deal for both of us.


Back in high school/college, I had a similar situation where I dated a girl for like 2 years, and she was super insecure and always would flip out if I talked to other girls, even if they were my friends, and always was questioning me. She would get jealous and turn crazy if there was any hint of me being even friends with other girls. She never trusted me even though I NEVER gave her any reason not to.

Yet, she cheated on me numerous times. To me, I have found out most of the time (not all of the time), if someone has trust issues and gets crazy when you have any relationship with someone of the opposite sex, it's mainly because they cheat and know what they do with members of the opposite sex, so they believe it is like that with everyone.

I'm am so happy with my wife. We have absolutely no trust issues. Mainly because I don't think either of us would ever cheat on the other, and therefore, because we both have in our mind we would never do it, we have a preconcieved notion on that is how a relationshp works, and therefore, we don't worry about the other person. And it is so nice.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Sarcastic on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:33 pm

shafnutz05 wrote:I just make sure to delete my Safari history before letting the missus play :pop:


gotcha lol
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby newarenanow on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:33 pm

shafnutz05 wrote:I just make sure to delete my Safari history before letting the missus play :pop:


I have a spare computer my wife thinks is broken to view what I think you are alluding at, so I never have to worry about erasing history.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby columbia on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:35 pm

Private Browsing Mode for the win.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Godric on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:35 pm

There is this thing called an incognito mode
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby newarenanow on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:36 pm

Godric wrote:There is this thing called an incognito mode


Dude, I own a Wii and still play the regular NES, I'm not technologically advance.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Sarcastic on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:39 pm

newarenanow wrote:I'm am so happy with my wife. We have absolutely no trust issues. Mainly because I don't think either of us would ever cheat on the other, and therefore, because we both have in our mind we would never do it, we have a preconcieved notion on that is how a relationshp works, and therefore, we don't worry about the other person. And it is so nice.


Yeah. I mean. When I look around and see ALL the crap that goes on. I just don't want to deal with it. The diseases, the heart-breaks, the tears, the stress-caused stomach aches (thanks, old g/f...). It's so much easier to just find yourself a cool relationship and enjoy it. A relationship that doesn't work isn't worth keeping. But one should really appreciate one that does.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Rylan on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:44 pm

:pop:
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Sarcastic on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:46 pm

Wussup, Rylan. I was thinking. You and Selena Gomez?
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Rylan on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:48 pm

I wouldn't say no.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby Sarcastic on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:51 pm

Rylan wrote:I wouldn't say no.


She's practically new.
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Re: Thread of Love 3.0

Postby columbia on Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:51 pm

:pop:
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