Thread of Love 3.0

[newarenanow]

My whole situation hasn't ruined my perception of marriage. Marriage is a wonderful thing, I just obviously chose the wrong person.

Exactly. I know plenty of people that had a horrible first marriage, but are happily married, and some for many, many years with their second spouse, and I'm sure there are some that it takes a few more tries.

[Lt. Dish]

My whole situation hasn't ruined my perception of marriage. Marriage is a wonderful thing, I just obviously chose the wrong person.

Who knows if I will ever get married again, but if I find the right person, I certainly would.

I had 12 days of vacation after these events that took place. 12 days was a long time to sit and dwell on it. I was a wreck for that week and a half but I think it helped me with moving on quicker. As far as I am concerned, right now I am single.

I just got a text from the soon to be ex-wife saying how I am childish because I haven't answered her texts in a while. ha. She still wants to be friends. As soon as the divorce is finalized I don't ever plan on talking to her again.

I mean no disrespect, as I know you cared deeply for her, but she's in her own galaxy with that one.

I wish you peace and good health in mind, body, and spirit as you move on from this.

[newarenanow]

I just got a text from the soon to be ex-wife saying how I am childish because I haven't answered her texts in a while. ha. She still wants to be friends. As soon as the divorce is finalized I don't ever plan on talking to her again.

I mean no disrespect, as I know you cared deeply for her, but she's in her own galaxy with that one.

I wish you peace and good health in mind, body, and spirit as you move on from this.

Yeah, I'm with you and thought the same thing.

She had feelings for another dude, went to the hospital, and even after you found her texts, you stood by her side, only for her to then go and sleep with the guy, abort his baby, want to kick you out while she needs to think things over, all the while she was married to and pledged her love to you.

And you are the childish one. Something is not right there.

[no name]

My whole situation hasn't ruined my perception of marriage. Marriage is a wonderful thing, I just obviously chose the wrong person.

Exactly. I know plenty of people that had a horrible first marriage, but are happily married, and some for many, many years with their second spouse, and I'm sure there are some that it takes a few more tries.

I talked to this younger woman at work and i congradulated her on getting engaged and she said something to the effect that this will be her first marriage... And many times while talking i got the feeling she wasn;t really in love and just didn't look at marriage as forever.

My view on my marriage is hard to explain. Its rare if you can find that true love forever.. and some couples have that. I found someone i can tolerate and think that is all you can ask for. I don't think there is a woman that would be my ideal match or truely make me any happier. No woman is going to wake me up, give me breakfast, offer to share some intimate time together then get me a beer. And it wouldn't hurt if she pulled in 100k a year. So i will stick with what i have.

[Rylan]

:lol: I just remembered the whole separate email thing and it made me chuckle in context. Thank you no name.

[Froggy]

At least you're still pretty young, and don't have kids with her so you have plenty of time ahead of you and no reason to keep her in your life. Plenty of silver linings here.

On the downside, your LGP legacy is now "my wife is a whore!"


This is aimed at p48g

[Troy Loney]

At least you're still pretty young, and don't have kids with her so you have plenty of time ahead of you and no reason to keep her in your life. Plenty of silver linings here.

On the downside, your LGP legacy is now "my wife is a whore!"


This is aimed at p48g

What's worse? Neck meat or whore wife?

[shafnutz05]

She cheated on me like 2 or 3 more times in that last year and when I found that out, it was very easy to move on.

Did she use Game Genie?

[Troy Loney]

She cheated on me like 2 or 3 more times in that last year and when I found that out, it was very easy to move on.

Did she use Game Genie?

[newarenanow]

She cheated on me like 2 or 3 more times in that last year and when I found that out, it was very easy to move on.

Did she use Game Genie?

No, this was around the time when N64 and playstation were big, and the NES and Super NES were not yet fully nostalgic, so no one played them, so since there was no game genie made for those systems, they were not used.

[shafnutz05]

She cheated on me like 2 or 3 more times in that last year and when I found that out, it was very easy to move on.

Did she use Game Genie?

No, this was around the time when N64 and playstation were big, and the NES and Super NES were not yet fully nostalgic, so no one played them, so since there was no game genie made for those systems, they were not used.

Ahh.....so GameShark then?

[Froggy]

At least you're still pretty young, and don't have kids with her so you have plenty of time ahead of you and no reason to keep her in your life. Plenty of silver linings here.

On the downside, your LGP legacy is now "my wife is a whore!"




This is aimed at p48g

What's worse? Neck meat or whore wife?

"my wife is a whore!" Is way better a post than neck meat, and should be remembered as an all time great LGP post.

[newarenanow]

She cheated on me like 2 or 3 more times in that last year and when I found that out, it was very easy to move on.

Did she use Game Genie?

No, this was around the time when N64 and playstation were big, and the NES and Super NES were not yet fully nostalgic, so no one played them, so since there was no game genie made for those systems, they were not used.

Ahh.....so GameShark then?

I'm actually very embarrassed to say that I had to google gameshark. I never knew that existed.

I guess those were the days in college when I could beat games for real.

[shafnutz05]

[no name]

:lol: I just remembered the whole separate email thing and it made me chuckle in context. Thank you no name.

Welcome, I was thinking no one remembered about that. I don't use them anymore though... Hidden texting has taken its place. haha

[canaan]

She cheated on me like 2 or 3 more times in that last year and when I found that out, it was very easy to move on.

Did she use Game Genie?

No, this was around the time when N64 and playstation were big, and the NES and Super NES were not yet fully nostalgic, so no one played them, so since there was no game genie made for those systems, they were not used.

Ahh.....so GameShark then?

I'm actually very embarrassed to say that I had to google gameshark. I never knew that existed.

I guess those were the days in college when I could beat games for real.

let it be known for the record, that even nan thinks that the use of game genies and game sharks are really beating the game.

[ExPatriatePen]

I talked to this younger woman at work and i congradulated her on getting engaged and she said something to the effect that this will be her first marriage... And many times while talking i got the feeling she wasn;t really in love and just didn't look at marriage as forever.
.

maybe it's because of my own broken pathology, but if I ever heard someone say this I would make it my mission to look up their fiancée and tell them about their 'intended'.

Maybe if the 'intended' is a girl I get slapped, maybe if its a guy I get punched. (Maybe it's the guy that said it, I tell the girl, she tells the guy she heard it from me and I end up getting shot ) but after having lived it, no way do I sit back and let someone else go through it.

Hey, even if they decide to press toward, at least my conscience is clean.

[Lt. Dish]

I talked to this younger woman at work and i congradulated her on getting engaged and she said something to the effect that this will be her first marriage... And many times while talking i got the feeling she wasn;t really in love and just didn't look at marriage as forever.
.

maybe it's because of my own broken pathology, but if I ever heard someone say this I would make it my mission to look up their fiancée and tell them about their 'intended'.

Maybe if the 'intended' is a girl I get slapped, maybe if its a guy I get punched. (Maybe it's the guy that said it, I tell the girl, she tells the guy she heard it from me and I end up getting shot ) but after having lived it, no way do I sit back and let someone else go through it.

Hey, even if they decide to press toward, at least my conscience is clean.

EPP, we established earlier in this thread that some people get married just to get married: "It's time, or "I want to have kids," or "everyone else is getting married." I would've liked to unleash you on a few of my friends over the years.

[ExPatriatePen]

I talked to this younger woman at work and i congradulated her on getting engaged and she said something to the effect that this will be her first marriage... And many times while talking i got the feeling she wasn;t really in love and just didn't look at marriage as forever.
.

maybe it's because of my own broken pathology, but if I ever heard someone say this I would make it my mission to look up their fiancée and tell them about their 'intended'.

Maybe if the 'intended' is a girl I get slapped, maybe if its a guy I get punched. (Maybe it's the guy that said it, I tell the girl, she tells the guy she heard it from me and I end up getting shot ) but after having lived it, no way do I sit back and let someone else go through it.

Hey, even if they decide to press toward, at least my conscience is clean.

EPP, we established earlier in this thread that some people get married just to get married: "It's time, or "I want to have kids," or "everyone else is getting married." I would've liked to unleash you on a few of my friends over the years.

Lt. I'd tell you my personal horror stories (yes I have more that I haven't shared) but you'd never believe me.

You'd figure I'd either be gay by now or have turned into the hillside strangler.

One thing I'd like to tell anyone that's considering cheating, do you recalling hate your SO so much that you want to screw up their relationships for the rest of their life?

Take the high road. Break it off first, or don't marry someone just because its best for *you*.

Some of us can NEVER trust again. And I'm sorry if that comes off pitiful.

[Godric]

edit: this was @ people just getting married because they feel "its time"

Thats whack. I ain't ever getting married then, If I don't land a perceptive girl... I'm not playing games for the rest of my life.

I sometimes get sick of being a social chameleon when it comes to girls and I have to act like I'm not put off by some of the **** they do or say... I can't imagine having that **** drive me crazy for a whole marriage... I'm just not doing it.

[Pen48guins]

Honestly,

I feel pretty great now after going through all this.
I was already losing weight. I'm down like 40lbs since the summer and putting on muscle. Hell, she messed things up when I'm about to slip in the best shape of my adult life. So, now I get to pick up the ladies.

[Lt. Dish]

Honestly,

I feel pretty great now after going through all this.
I was already losing weight. I'm down like 40lbs since the summer and putting on muscle. Hell, she messed things up when I'm about to slip in the best shape of my adult life. So, now I get to pick up the ladies.

Winger for Sid! Wake up, RS!

[Letang Is The Truth]

was she really pregnant?

[no name]

I talked to this younger woman at work and i congradulated her on getting engaged and she said something to the effect that this will be her first marriage... And many times while talking i got the feeling she wasn;t really in love and just didn't look at marriage as forever.
.

maybe it's because of my own broken pathology, but if I ever heard someone say this I would make it my mission to look up their fiancée and tell them about their 'intended'.

Maybe if the 'intended' is a girl I get slapped, maybe if its a guy I get punched. (Maybe it's the guy that said it, I tell the girl, she tells the guy she heard it from me and I end up getting shot ) but after having lived it, no way do I sit back and let someone else go through it.

Divorce rates are like 50% of all married couples get divorced, the ideal that marriage is forever has died. People don't even go into marriage now thinking its forever.

I wake up every morning and realize I am happily married, i am happy to know my wife will be miserable married to me for the rest of her life. The idea of us getting divorced and her finding someone who makes her happy gets me sick.

My wife and i often say this infront of each other at parties and people always get a good laugh at it.

Hey, even if they decide to press toward, at least my conscience is clean.

EPP, we established earlier in this thread that some people get married just to get married: "It's time, or "I want to have kids," or "everyone else is getting married." I would've liked to unleash you on a few of my friends over the years.

Lt. I'd tell you my personal horror stories (yes I have more that I haven't shared) but you'd never believe me.

You'd figure I'd either be gay by now or have turned into the hillside strangler.

One thing I'd like to tell anyone that's considering cheating, do you recalling hate your SO so much that you want to screw up their relationships for the rest of their life?

Take the high road. Break it off first, or don't marry someone just because its best for *you*.

Some of us can NEVER trust again. And I'm sorry if that comes off pitiful.

[Pen48guins]

Just to clarify the story.

The guy I found the texts from a few years back and the guy she did the horizontal shuffle with are two different people.

When she had this recent asthma attack this past September he was the Childrens transport medic that transported her from Childrens to right around the corner to the adult hospital. Apparently they started talking after that.

The guy who sent the texts apparently was a patient care tech on the same floor.

Who the heck knows how many other people could have been involved.

And, yea, she was really pregnant. When she had the spontaneous abortion she had to take a trip or two to outpatient care at the hospital because she was anemic.

I went and finally filed papers today. One more step closer to be done with it all.